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I feel like I'm constantly talking to a wall. When I try to express my feelings or concerns, he either dismisses them, interrupts, or just zones out. It makes me feel unheard and unimportant.

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I feel like I'm constantly talking to a wall. When I try to express my feelings or concerns, he either dismisses them, interrupts, or just zones out. It makes me feel unheard and unimportant.
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Evaluate Your Own Needs

75%

Determine if his current relationship goals align with your own long-term desires and be prepared to make a decision based on that alignment.

Directly Ask About His Intentions

75%

Gently inquire about what he's looking for in a relationship right now, to understand his current goals.

Focus on Present Enjoyment

75%

Continue to enjoy your time together and build a strong foundation, allowing the relationship to naturally progress without forcing labels.

Discuss Relationship Expectations

75%

Have a calm conversation about what exclusivity and future planning mean to each of you and find common ground.

Create a Safe Space for Honesty

75%

Encourage him to be open about his thoughts and feelings, assuring him that you can handle the truth, whatever it may be.

Observe His Actions

75%

Pay attention to his consistent behavior, effort, and how he prioritizes you and the relationship, as actions often speak louder than words.

Patience and Understanding

75%

Recognize that overcoming commitment issues takes time and consistent reassurance of your support and intentions.

Open and Gentle Communication

75%

Express your feelings and needs without pressure, allowing him to share his concerns and fears at his own pace.

Encourage Open Dialogue About Stress

75%

Create a safe space for him to share his worries and work through them together, rather than him seeking solace solely with friends.

Offer Support and Understanding

75%

Gently inquire if he's going through anything and offer your support without judgment.

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